"Ah," Rose whispered, "well, I would love t'see the jar, but you may also want t'consider releasing them. I bet you wouldn't like to be kept in a jar with a bunch of strangers, while some fleshy giants came around occasionally t'poke at you." As she said this, she poked them both gently, and would have mussed their hair, if Selene wouldn't have yelled at her. It's not like she knew better than anyone how to manage curly hair, or anything. Although she was teasing them, she did still hope the siblings would take her advice to heart and release the insects. She always cared very deeply about the well-being of natural things, and had (on multiple occasions) bemoaned the construction of new homes because where will the deer and opossums go?
But, of course, when Selene approached, she straightened up, smoothed her skirt, and pretended as if she and the children had been speaking about something rather different, "I've been alright. Calla and Lillie are turning 20 in just a few days, and I've got enough money t'make the phone call home. I can afford a whole hour, I can't wait." In contrast to Selene, who never seemed to give a real smile, Rose shone with excitement. Maybe one day Selene would warm up to her, at the very least Rose was open and welcoming towards her. And she did like her, even if she had been yelled at by her on more than one occasion... Although, the older woman did remind Rose of the stories she was told by her parents and grandparents about the wealthy English who moved into Ireland and attempted to 'civilize' them, and who would put drawings of them in cartoons contrasting them with the nice, respectable, English types. But Selene tried to civilize everybody. And at least, when she felt like it, Rose could lie and cite cultural differences.
And, trying to be as polite as possible, Rose stood to the side, allowing the Dunhams to enter first, as that pesky curl fell out of place yet again.