I find it interesting how the amount of female bisexuals is quite close to the number of male heterosexuals. I am a bisexual female and completley accept who I am. When people disgrace me, I smile and wave proudly. I like to think I have a better chance at finding someone than those who are straight, but it is all up to fate.
Wel, its not nearly so simple for men to advertize that as it is for us. They tend to speak of that behind closed doors, in the company of ppl they trust. In some countrys, male homosexualism is a capital offence; they even have concentration camps for them, like in Checeniya. In many others, including mine, it is HEAVILY frowned upon. I have seen guys get harassed/beat up over the color of clothes they wear, since they are seen as faggots. Late evening, lonely tram station at the out-skirts of my city, lets just say as a guy, you do NOT want to be wearing anithing red or heaven forbid, pink. Thats just asking for trouble, the kind of trouble that can land you in a hospital, as a man. Most men, hetero and othervise, find a sex scene betwen 2 women to be appealing/hot. But a sex scene betwen 2 men is something that repulses most men. It obviusly has to do vith them perciving a broader spektrum of sexuality as a weakness, vhich wuld make them less "manly". Now,
I'm not a liberal, by any strech of the imaginetion, nor do I like most liberals, but vhen it comes to sexuality, I am very open minded (since it is part of vhat I do for a living), as long as it isnt shoved in my face. So to me, that perception most men have is a bit arhaic. I mean, I have met homsexual men. Some of them are more "manly" then most heteros I ever met. You know. Buff, tough, good fighters, emotionaly stable, etc. , all that.
Evrything which is typicaly seen as "manly". None of that stereotipical image ppl have of homos, as over-senzitive efeminate males. Ofc, there are homo men like that, but there are hetero men like that, too (met my share of those too). So its not a sexual orientation thing, its a character thing.
But in a nut-shell, I belive thats the reason. Fear of geting stigmatized.