...Sorry. You may be right. I have this thing called 'Maladaptive Daydreaming'. It basically means there's a corner of my brain that is always daydreaming, thinking, and the daydreams tend to be more complex than most, often with their own stories and plots and characters. I tend to think deeply and outside of the box on a lot of things, including this.
Like I said before, good characters are usually part of you. Luke Skywalker was George Lucas trying to prove himself to the world and the studio industry, and he did. In a big way.
I'm not saying environment isn't important, but a story with no characters and just a world would be boring, but a story with no world and just characters could be much more.
Anyway, all this to say, this is how my mind works, a way of... Objectifying my thoughts to characters. Shattered into little pieces.
Characters, at least mine, take on a mind of their own sometimes. You shouldn't be in control of your characters. You manipulate the character through environmental factors rather than puppeteering the characters themselves because then they become dead, what was once unique becoming stale and stagnant, an empty shell.
Is there really anything wrong with losing 'control' of your characters, and through them, part of the story? It may go in unexpected directions, directions you never intended, you walking this journey with your character, instead if through them.
Now that sounds like a wonderful adventure.