"Alternatively," Daizi pushed back, "you desperately want to conflate a personality or a sense of self with outward, physical beauty, because like many people, you've never learned to separate beauty from virtue. Since you don't see me as evil, or wicked, or cruel--I presume that you don't, you want me to be transformed to beauty. We're told from the time we're small that 'only bad witches are ugly,' and if you do bad things you'll be punished by being transformed into a beast, and if we are prideful our beautiful selves will be shriveled down into hideous spiders, and so many more stories besides... But life does not work that way. The kindest people, people far kinder than I, may look as I do, or worse, and the cruelest may be like Nymphs crossing this land, and yet, if you put our pictures side by side, and told to pick who is prettiest, I would not be selected. I will never and could never win a beauty contest, and that's okay, because beauty is not the same thing as the merit of your soul. We learned that from Oscar Wilde: Dorian Gray was beautiful, and nobody would argue that, but he was vile."
She leaned back in her chair, and smiling she said, "I may not think of myself as beautiful, because I am not, but I am not vile, and I am exactly the person I would hope to be, and I like who I am. To judge ourselves and life on the basis of beauty is to miss the deeper complexities of the world. Spiders are rarely considered beautiful, but they keep the mosquitos away. Vultures are not so beloved as song birds, yet by consuming carrion they keep the life in their habitats healthy. It is not our job to be beautiful, because our value is not in if we are aesthetically pleasing to behold, and you might say that you think I'm beautiful, but scientifically, the human eye prefers symmetry. And, I won't speak for Dark, or about how he feels about the way I look, but I don't even really want to be beautiful. Beauty is not the price I pay to exist in the world, and I've never promised anybody a rose garden."
Dark nodded, listening to her speak, still playing with the ends of her hair with one hand, "I do not personally believe I spoke of beauty, I spoke of what inspires awe, and that is not the same thing... Although, darling, you already know I think you have a beautiful smile."
"And that I accept willingly, because having a pretty smile is not the same thing as being pretty."