"Hmm," Kazimir tapped his chin. "I think you know that someone loves you when they go out of their way to help you. Maybe not all the time, but they consistently try to think of you before them, and if you tell them you do not like something, like... being made to wear a red shirt, they do not try to make you wear a red shirt. Unless there are no other shirts and it is freezing outside, or maybe they forget once or twice. These are little things, merely examples."